Messages of Condolence
From: I first met my father-in-law when he and his wife attended our marriage ceremony at Letchworth State Park. Kathie and I live in Canada, and over the years have attended family events in Cuba and area, and visited on other occasions, when we could. I recall at one family event, Paul stood and shared with the family how the company he had founded had pioneered waste collection and management in rural upstate New York. He spoke with pride and conviction, capturing in a few words, as was his wont, a successful business life that spanned decades. He also loved history, and I recall him telling me about the history of Cuba Lake and, on another occasion, the crew makeup and duties of those who operated the local oil pumpjacks. Understated and soft-spoken, he had a beautiful way of saying simply in a few words what others would struggle to express with many. He always spoke from his heart, and with compassion and understanding. I will miss him deeply. In this time of grief and remembrance, it is his kindness and gentleness that I recall most.
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